Help, so upset and disappointed :(?

Read your own question. You've already answered it. You have a thing for a guy who isn't responding the way you respond. If you were happy with what you are getting out of this relationship you wouldn't be asking this question. You're not happy with what you're getting in return. So, have a talk with him. Tell him how you feel. If he isn't willing to change, then you have to ask yourself if you want to continue in a relationship where you do all the giving and he does all the taking. If that's what you want, then that's what you've got now.